The Gap Between

What you know and what you show

If you're anything like me, you clicked the ad out of curiosity or maybe because you had that "ooh, that is me" moment.

Then you got here and had second thoughts about clicking the button.

I didn't click until I was ready. Even then, I'd answer all the questions and leave the moment an email address was required.

If this is you and you're ready, click the button.

There's no score or forced email collection before you see the results. It's just five questions that may help you pause long enough to recognize what you've been moving past.

Question 1 of 5

When someone asks how you're doing, how often is your answer actually true?

Almost always

Sometimes

Rarely

I don't remember the last time it was

How much of your day is spent managing how you're being perceived?

Very little — I don't think about it much

Some — I'm aware of it occasionally

A lot — it runs in the background constantly

It's practically a second job

At the end of the day, how much of what you did was actually for you?

Most of it

Some of it

Very little

I'm not sure I'd know the difference anymore

When something feels off, what do you usually do with that feeling?

Address it

Note it and move on

Push through it

Manage it well enough that I stop noticing it

How long have you known that something needed a closer look?

It's recent

A few months

Longer than I'd like to admit

Long enough that I've stopped asking the question

What your responses suggest

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